Yes, This is a new network that I set up in the remote office. Everything is shared, also tried a homegroup and workgroup.
the only way i can find the server is pinging the LAN from the windows 8 machine, so I know the VPN is working correctly. Very puzzling to me, I've set up many networks and windows 7 machines with no problem. In fact I have a windows 7 machine up and running on the server at the this remote office.